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Imagine buying an old house that's seen better days. You know it needs work. The roof leaks when it rains. The kitchen is outdated. The floors creak beneath your feet. Every room seems to reveal anoth...

It's one of the most common questions people ask when they begin to realize their sexual behaviors may be more than an occasional mistake. “Why do I keep doing this?”

You may have promised yourself t...

Summer can be a time of rest, travel, and new experiences, but for those in recovery from compulsive sexual behavior, it can also bring unexpected challenges. The relaxed rhythms of summer—looser sche...

Often, when those who struggle with compulsive sexual behavior are “found out,” they enter into a period of sobriety built on promises and willpower. There’s a deep desire to stop acting out, become a...

Valentine’s Day marketing campaigns have a way of turning love into a performance. It can feel like the only way to show you love your partner is a fancy dinner out, the perfect words, or just the rig...

If you’ve been working hard in recovery—showing up to therapy, staying sober, doing the work—and your relationship still feels fragile, it’s easy to feel frustrated.

You might be thinking,

“I’ve sto...

When your life has been rocked by compulsive sexual behavior, the path to healing can feel like a rocky, confusing, and lonely journey. Often the addicted partner has been trying to fight the battle a...

Individuals who struggle with problematic sexual behaviors are often wracked with guilt and shame. They ask themselves over and over, Why do I feel compelled toward things I don’t want to do? 

Trauma...